Truths about Human Psychology 0

These truths I hold to be self evident, whether they pertain to dating or not:

• The more a person brags, the more they are insecure
• What they talk/brag about the most is their most vulnerable, insecure sore spot
• The more you are scarce, the more you are desired
• People always project the future based on the way they feel in the present
• People are terrible at predicting what they want or how they will feel if they get what they want
• That’s because people don’t know what they want
• Best way to build the basis for any kind of relationship is to give away something for free
• What you don’t care about can’t hurt you
• The more you own, the more it owns you
• People’s reactions are more a reflection of themselves than you
• Most people are miserable because they want what they can’t have
• That’s because they have unrealistic expectations
• And an unrealistic idea of how much work it will take to fulfill those expectations
• The desire for a quick fix will only serve to reinforce their unhappiness
• Learn to say NO, people will respect you more
• Everyone has their own agenda, whether they realize it or not
• If you want something done, appeal to the person’s own self interests
• A vast majority of relationships are doomed
• That’s because most people are almost clinically unfit to be in a relationship
• That’s because the need for a quick fix and consumerist marketing reinforces egocentrism
• The truth is that the true way towards greatness is through selfless love towards others, not self-love
• What you see on TV and in the magazines is 99% utter and total crap, but it has become our guide
• Which contributes to people’s confusion
• And they live for someone else’s agenda
• Before you can have a great relationship, you have to understand what’s truly important in life
• The key to happiness is to actually see it around you…. it is there, but you have to see it